Author: Stephanie Hills

  • Kindness to animals

    The principle of kindness applies to animals, as well as humans. Recently Lynley* found a cat lying on her front deck. Somehow its front paw had got caught in its collar, so that it couldn’t walk. Although she was a stranger to the cat, Lynley approached it and unbuckled its collar to set its leg […]

  • Freedom and Rules

    Years ago, I worked in the adoption service, where it was my job to interview couples who wanted to adopt. As the government agency for child protection, it was our duty to ensure the child’s safety and to approve all suitable applicants without prejudice. (Very few were turned down.) The criteria were different for the […]

  • Enhance Your Team’s Harmony

    If you’re a leader in a non-profit organisation, you’re probably pleased with the dedication and professionalism shown by your workers. On the other hand, you sometimes find that staff seem disgruntled, or that not everyone is on your wavelength. Contact me for a unique service to improve harmony in your workplace. More than simply mediation […]

  • Newly invented proverbs

    “Don’t get mad, get angry.” ~ Edwina Currie “Never the bride, always the bridegroom.”  ~ Peter Jones “Two heads are better than none.” ~ Jean Green “The hand that turns the doorknob opens the door.”   ~ D H Anderson “A person with false teeth may still speak the truth.”   ~ V. Earnest Cox “It’s better […]

  • Leadership and Self-Deception. Getting Out of the Box

    Elske writes: The book that impacted my personal life the most was: Leadership and Self-Deception. Getting out of the box, by the Arbinger Institute.  It is a fictional story that illustrates wisdom and principles about our relationships and conflict. Funny enough I actually bought it for an employee – but got curious and read it myself. I never did pass […]

  • Book review competition

    Send in an original one-paragraph review of a book that has inspired you or helped you become happier.  Entries go in the draw to win a copy of Higher Purpose: How to find more inspiration, meaning and purpose in your life by Robert Holden. The winning review will be featured in a Happy Nation newsletter. […]

  • The gift of listening

    Have you ever left a social gathering feeling drained? Chances are you didn’t get to express yourself authentically. Perhaps you felt you had to make small talk or pretend to be interested in topics that didn’t excite you. Have you ever come away from a meeting feeling frustrated and demoralised? I’ll bet you weren’t given […]

  • Higher Purpose: How to find more inspiration, meaning, and purpose in your life.

    Higher Purpose: How to Find More Inspiration, Meaning, and Purpose in Your Life                                                                                 by Robert Holden At some stage we all stop to wonder why we are here. Do I have some destiny to discover and fulfil, or is it up to me to create my life’s meaning? Robert Holden addresses these questions with […]

  • Some quirky quotes

    “The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits.” ~ Albert Einstein “If you live to be one hundred, you’ve got it made. Very few people die past that age.”                                           ~ George Burns “The surest sign that intelligent life exists elsewhere in the universe is that it has never tried to […]

  • Comfort discourages heroism

    Heroes overcome obstacles. Whether it’s a passerby who risks danger to save others in a one-off incident, or a human rights campaigner working tirelessly over a lifetime, a hero doesn’t take the easy road. Most of us don’t aspire to be heroes; we leave that for exceptional human beings. We prefer to mind our own […]